Is this the year you’re going to run a marathon, cut out processed sugars and finally apply for that promotion you’ve been after?If only you had enough willpower or self-control to see that plan through, right?Wrong, according to clinical psychologist and adjunct professor at Georgetown University, Jelena Kecmanovic.”A big misconception [about willpower] is this idea that if I would just be harder on myself, if I could beat myself up more, if I whip myself into shape … everything will be fine,” Dr Kecmanovic said.”And yet almost all the data shows the opposite.”Self-compassion more important than disciplineRather, the research reveals that when you fall off the wagon — which you inevitably will, Dr Kecmanovic pointed out — showing yourself compassion is more helpful than beating yourself up about it.

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What is willpower?Willpower is your capacity to engage in behaviours which are consistent with your intentions.It comprises three aspects:Your ability to…



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